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A Dozen Steps

Archive for the ‘Living Sober’ Category

September 9th, 2008

What A Concept - IV

Moving along in our book “Living Sober” we find ourselves at page 13 and we’re about to get active…
“It is very hard just to sit still trying not to do a certain thing, or not even to think about it. It’s much easier to get active and do something else - other than the act […]

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August 29th, 2008

What A Concept - III

Making use of the slogan “Live and Let Live” - from the book “Living Sober.”
“An ancient sage said that none of us should criticize another until we have walked a mile in the other person’s boots. This wise advice can give us greater compassion for our fellow human beings. And putting it into practice makes […]

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August 13th, 2008

What A Concept - II

To continue the “What A Concept” thoughts…
We return to “Living Sober” and page 12;
“We’ll meet some people in A.A. or elsewhere who won’t be exactly crazy about us, either. So all of us try to respect the rights of others to act as they choose (or must). We can then expect them to give us […]

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August 7th, 2008

Pardon Me Whilst I Pontificate

“To speak in a patronizing, supercilious or pompous manner, especially at length.”
Well, yeah, maybe I do… and… maybe I don’t.
But, once again, unless you’re my sponsor or my God, if that is your judgment of me, you have wasted your breath and your gray matter. Of course, I’m happy that I can build a small […]

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July 22nd, 2008

What A Concept - I

Yes, I’m being a bit facetious…
From “Living Sober” on page 11;
“To begin to put the concept of ‘Live and Let Live’ into practice, we must face this fact: There are people in A.A., and everywhere else, who sometimes say things we disagree with, or do things we don’t like.”
Ya’ think?
“Learning to live with differences is […]

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July 16th, 2008

People Close Doors and Burn Bridges Behind Themselves

Then their Higher Power opens new doors and provides new and better opportunities.
Of course it takes a bit of faith and some positive thinking to believe that. Negative thinking won’t make it work. Neither will ego and pride. Might just require a small amount of pain too.
From today’s Daily Reflection: “It was painful to give […]

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July 15th, 2008

Temporary Good Can Often Be A Deadly Enemy

After a great deal of trial and error, some manufactured, some ill conceived, some forced upon, regarding anonymity, Bill W. learned what may have been the lesson that “saved” Alcoholics Anonymous.
Subsequent to many situations involving the breaking of anonymity by AA members, Bill says (The Language of the Heart, pg. 216);
We now fully realize that […]

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July 5th, 2008

Knowing God’s Will

Interesting…
How many of us have the audacity to think that we might know God’s will? Think about it… to approach making the statement that I know what God’s will is for me, or you, imho (lol), I believe that I would have a level of arrogance higher than that I’d had before.
Place my thought plane […]

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June 4th, 2008

We Concentrate On Avoiding Only One Drink

The First One!
From “Living Sober” we’re told something profoundly simple on page 3;
“We have found that for us recovery began with not drinking - with getting sober and staying completely free of alcohol in any amount, and in any form. We have also found that we have to stay away from other mind-changing drugs. We […]

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