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A Dozen Steps

Archive for the ‘Reality’ Category

October 11th, 2008

An 80% Success Rate

And today the literature isn’t AA approved…
Let’s see if the profundity pushers/feather strokers can contradict this.
Circa 1990: “A.A. newcomers in South Bend, Indiana, were asked to come to a newcomers meeting on Thursday evenings for a full year. At each meeting, the pamphlet (in the form in which it appears on this website) was passed […]

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September 26th, 2008

The Hideous Four Horsemen

“Then would come oblivion and the awful awakening to face the hideous Four Horsemen”
Terror - Extreme or intense fear.

Bewilderment - Confused or perplexed.

Despair - To give up all hope or expectation.

Frustration - Dissatisfied, agitated, and/or discontent because one is unable to perform an action or fulfill a desire.

It’s no coincidence that they follow directly the […]

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September 18th, 2008

Mel B Introduces Drink-By-Drink Dave

And a few other boring characters…
From Mel’s article “Open-Meeting Bores”
The challenge? AA … “is greatly imperiled by the great blanket of boredom that stifles many meetings from coast to coast.”
Mel’s research and conclusion: “Having arrived at the conclusion that boring meetings and groups were caused by boring members, I began to look for some means […]

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September 15th, 2008

Rotating Out Is A Matter Of Humility

Once again, from the Traditions Nine Checklist
Tradition Nine: AA, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve.

Do I still try to boss things in AA?
Do I resist formal aspects of AA because I fear them as authoritative?
Am I mature enough to understand and […]

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September 11th, 2008

Happy To Report

I’m very happy to report that I went to an NA meeting last night (my first in 8 yrs.) and Narcotics Anonymous is alive and well in Savannah, Georgia!
Yes, I am serious… for a long time, nine years, I’ve watched as the local court system has directed folks with substance problems into the rooms of […]

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September 3rd, 2008

AA - Selfish Program?

Alex has done it again :)
How Bill W. explained what was meant by the saying that
“A.A. is a SELFISH program.”
…. Another correspondent complained directly that he had been ‘disturbed to hear some A.A. speakers say, ‘A.A. is a selfish program.’” The co-founder’s response was eventually published in “The A.A. Way of Life”:
I can see why […]

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September 3rd, 2008

A Neat Thought From Narcotics Anonymous

Thanks NA…
Freedom From Prejudice
“We do not and cannot recover alone. Some members can remember being unwelcome in other fellowships. Some of us recall sitting alone with a White Booklet waiting for another addict to show up at a meeting so that we could have our own NA group. Another addict, any addict, was exceedingly welcome. […]

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September 1st, 2008

Grow - Or - Go…

It might be inevitable…
Those who don’t grow will inevitably go - back to drinking (drugging, overeating, etc.). Pitiful and incomprehensible demoralization.
Let’s take a shot (and I mean shoot at it lol) at complacency. From today’s Daily Reflection;
“Sobriety fills the painful ‘hole in my soul’ that my alcoholism created. Often I feel so physically well that […]

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August 18th, 2008

A Child Is Not A Weapon!

I was speaking with a female friend yesterday. A couple of months ago her daughter gave birth to her first grandchild.
Not long after the baby was born the mother and, more specifically, the father, returned to their addictions. Mom could very well be a “social” experimenter but Dad is certainly one of “us.” He has […]

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August 10th, 2008

A “Great” Story?

Tell ya’ what - the very next time you hear a speaker announced as having a “great” story… invite their family, their parole officer, the families of the people they hurt, their employers and the folks they hurt at work. Invite their mental health counselors (if they have one), their Doctor and their attorney. Oh, […]

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