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A Dozen Steps

October 20th, 2008

The World Of The Spirit

“We vigorously commenced this way of living as we cleaned up the past. We have entered the world of the Spirit. Our next function is to grow in understanding and effectiveness.”

We have a good friend who asks this question at meetings - “how do I know that AA is working?” The answer?
I’ve never had it […]

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September 12th, 2008

I Am Responsible

Doesn’t [always] mean I am guilty…
Listening to newcomers at today’s Noon meeting I heard it again. What I sounded like with the same amount of “sober” time. Especially when I attempted to speak about what my father “did” to me to make me drink. That is until an oldtimer asked me if my father poured […]

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September 5th, 2008

A Step Towards Emotional Balance

From today’s Daily Reflection;
“Made direct amends to such people wherever possible”
This reflection speaks of not being able to make amends to those folks who were casual acquaintances. People who passed through our lives briefly or barely. Like those neighbors I used to live near who no doubt heard my late night yelling…
“The only amends I […]

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September 3rd, 2008

AA - Selfish Program?

Alex has done it again :)
How Bill W. explained what was meant by the saying that
“A.A. is a SELFISH program.”
…. Another correspondent complained directly that he had been ‘disturbed to hear some A.A. speakers say, ‘A.A. is a selfish program.’” The co-founder’s response was eventually published in “The A.A. Way of Life”:
I can see why […]

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August 15th, 2008

Wasn’t That The Idea?

Knowing I’m not alone, it was part and parcel of the deal - from today’s reading;
Didn’t We Hurt Anybody?
“Some of us, though, tripped over a very different snag. We clung to the claim that when drinking we never hurt anybody but ourselves.”
Wow, were we ever self-centered??? Yet, that was what I believed and it was […]

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August 6th, 2008

Preparing For A Face-To-Face

No, this is not about a bar fight anymore…
And it will eliminate the “easier, softer way” the Internet offers.
“When listing the people we have harmed, most of us hit another solid obstacle. We got a pretty severe shock when we realized that we were preparing to make a face-to-face admission of our wretched conduct to […]

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August 5th, 2008

They Did “It” To Me! Oh - You Think So?

Don’t bet your life on it…
“Every A.A. has found that he can make little headway in this new adventure of living until he first backtracks and really makes an accurate and unsparing survey of the human wreckage he has left in his wake.”
Accurate and unsparing! Do you now know why the Fourth Step said “Searching […]

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August 4th, 2008

Oh No! Personal Relationships!!!

That’s right - “Steps Eight and Nine are concerned with personal relationships.”
Thought - if you’re new and having troubles with your personal relationships and thinking of drinking, don’t keep it to yourself and think perhaps you can solve it on your own! Meetings, sponsor, oldtimers.
Make note - From the 12&12, page 77;
“First, we take a […]

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August 2nd, 2008

Honesty - But To What Extent?

Once upon a time when I was a car salesman I lost jobs because I was told I was too honest. Then, and now, I still see polls that show that one of the Top Ten Most Dishonest jobs is a car salesman. So, I’m grateful.
Naturally, I consider that, in “those days,” I was drinking […]

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July 9th, 2008

Not Thinking Less of Myself Than I Ought To…

Perfect timing Mary Christine :)
I’ve written on this before and it is both timely and - well, timely.
From the Daily Reflections for July 9th;
I Am An Instrument

Humbly Asked Him To Remove Our Shortcomings. (12 and 12, p. 70)
The subject of humility is a difficult one. Humility is not thinking less of myself than I ought […]

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